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Hi there, This is a very hard thing for me to understand but here is our situation,

We are a family husband and wife and 3 kids 2 boys and 1 girl, we have had a border for the past 6 weeks and it has now come out that he has accusation's which have not been proven against him in his past we don't feel he is a threat to our children and we are very angry right now, cyfs have informed us and our border that he must move from our premises as his past allagations are enough for them to say he must move our kids get on very well with our border and there have been no signs to us to say there is any reason for him to move. cyfs have said if he stay's there will be a case made for us and they are going to go to our kids school and speak with our kids and it really is a big huge mess if any1 knows what we can do than please HELP!!!!

Yes, write the story and Email it to me, at...

kiwi1960@slingshot.co.nz

And I shall ensure its posted on CYFSwatch, and sent to Paula Bennet and Peter Hughes.

This proves what I have been saying all along, that CYFS is a law unto themselves.

Get your full file. Use the OIA! PM me with your email address (Can't do attachments here) for some help I have prepared. What part of NZ are you in? Might have personal support! Feel free to name social Workers.

CYF`s being bullies against. However put your kids first and be vigilant . Sadly our friends may hide issues that could endanger your children. However your boarder may be a victim of malice. Talk to your children first before CYF`s do. Make sure your children know the safety rules.

I couldn't agree more with what andwhat has just said. Put the kids first. Ive not had a lot to do with my brother for many years (20 years) His being overseas etc. He is one of the coolest people you could meet. He as from yesterday has joined the numbers on the sex offenders list and begins his long stay in jail. It is really not for me to say if he did or didnt do it, The courts decided that. These crimes date back a few years as well at a time when he wasnt part of my life. We only reconnected at the time of our fathers death. For the benefit for all children, now and in the future although I do love my brother he will never step foot in my home or near any children that are connected to me. Sad but it is for the best. He may not have done a thing... but if he did and I get it wrong.... well that thought is far more painful than never seeing my brother again.